Friday, May 31, 2024

Damien Nettles: Nicky McNamara – Untangling the rumours

In this eighth post of a series that examines the disappearance of 16-year-old Damien Nettles on 3 November 1996 from Cowes, Isle of Wight, I will be looking at when Nicky McNamara’s name became associated with Damien’s. 

If you have arrived here without having read the previous posts in the series, below are the links in order. For this post to make sense, you might want to read Who was Nicky McNamara? first.

Many of the rumours surrounding Damien’s disappearance involve Nicky McNamara as the main suspect in Damien’s death. In the previous post I examined how Nicky has been portrayed by the news and broadcast media, and considered his offending history. Contrary to what has become the public image of Nicky as a crazed drug dealer with a history of violence, it emerged that he was a heroin addict with a long string of theft and driving offences. He had just three known drug offences to his name – all for possession of cannabis (4 x immature plants growing in the garden of a Newport property, a small piece of resin, and 1 x plant that was being transported in a car). No other drug offences were reported in the local newspapers – nothing for possession of Class A drugs, and nothing for intent to supply any drug, not even cannabis.

He also had only two known violence offences to his name. Both involved individuals who he had long-standing personal relationships with. He admitted to both offences and was punished for them. He also pleaded guilty to three criminal damage offences for which he received fines, and one instance in June 1996 of cracking a security screen at the DSS when he hit it in anger at receiving a £9.86 benefit cheque to last him the week, for which he received a conditional discharge. He claimed that he didn’t think he had hit the screen hard enough for it to break. Having got caught in the criminal justice system’s net at an early age, he was well-known to the police throughout his life to the point of claiming police harassment in 1993. Nicky was a tall man, and his height, familiarity to the police, and the two occasions that he threw a punch in anger (at his girlfriend and the DSS security screen) may have some bearing on how plausible he is as a suspect in Damien’s disappearance, and also how particular rumours may have come about.

When did Nicky McNamara’s name become linked with Damien’s?

Whilst Damien may have come into contact with Nicky prior to or on the night of 2-3 November 1996, there is little to suggest that Nicky had personally dealt cannabis to Damien, even less to suggest that he had sold Damien Class A drugs, and as yet no evidence to indicate that he had anything to do with Damien’s disappearance. Even so, Nicky’s name has become so embedded in the rumours about what may have happened to Damien that trying to untangle it all seems like an impossible task. However, analysing timelines of accounts when Nicky is mentioned, implied or assumed may provide some answers as to when his name could have become associated with Damien’s, and how strong those links might be.

The book The Boy Who Disappeared by Damien’s mother, Valerie, provides a chronology of information and events surrounding Damien’s disappearance from November 1996 through to the filming of Unsolved: The Boy Who Disappeared in 2015 that is as close to the source of information as anyone outside of the Nettles family and the police investigation can get. Using this chronology along with additional details from newspaper articles, I created ‘Timeline 1’ of when Nicky’s name was mentioned, implied or assumed, and from this, ‘Timeline 2’, which begins on the evening of Damien’s disappearance. The two timelines (particularly Timeline 2) contain A LOT of information, and so rather than include them here in the main body of the post, I have put them at the end before my sources list because I want the information to be available to anyone who has the time and interest to read it, and transparency is crucial if the questions that arose from my analysis are to be taken seriously. I also want to keep the main post at a readable length!

The first time that Nicky McNamara’s name is mentioned is towards the end of October 2003. Valerie called DCI Williams on 23 October 2003 for an update on the DNA analysis of some bones that had washed up near Warsash in the summer. There was no update, but she writes that not long after this, she made a follow-up call. This time she spoke to DI Murphy, and pressed him for a wider update on Damien’s case:

  • DI Murphy told Valerie that they thought they had identified one of the unknown men in the Yorkies CCTV footage – ‘a well-known drug dealer from the area’ (Valerie’s words) who had died the previous year.
  • DI Murphy did not tell Valerie the person’s name, and the police did not release it to the press nor make it public in any way.
  • Valerie asked the Isle of Wight County Press who the person could be. A reporter told her that she thought it would be Nicky McNamara.
  • The police came back to Valerie and told her that it wasn’t who they thought it was in the Yorkies footage.
  • Valerie shared Nicky McNamara’s name with her family and friends.  

After Valerie had shared Nicky’s name with her family and friends, Damien’s younger brother, James, spoke of Nicky’s sons having taunted him at school about Damien being ‘fish bait’. James also spoke of going to Nicky’s house with a friend from school who knew Nicky’s sons. James repeats this incident in episode 3 of Unsolved: The Boy Who Disappeared, that it was a few years after Damien disappeared and that Nicky ‘was talking to everybody, and then he looked at me and asked who I was, and when they told him... he got jumpy and… told them that we all had to leave.’ Damien’s younger sister, Melissa, spoke of a time when Nicky’s daughter, who was a year above her at school, suddenly started asking her questions about what the police were saying about Damien.

James was 12 when Damien disappeared and Melissa was 9. The police and many people on the Island at the time believed that Damien had entered the sea (either willingly or by accident) and drowned. In the 12 months after Damien went missing and in the absence of his body washing up, the rumours that circulated about what had happened to him included multiple claims that he had been killed and his body disposed of – one of which was that he had been chopped up and put into lobster pots. The taunts about Damien being ‘fish bait’ therefore have an alternative explanation, and Nicky’s sons were probably just being mean to James for the sake of it – kids being kids. But what of James’ later encounter with Nicky, and Nicky’s daughter quizzing Melissa?

If the anonymous witness who took Unsolved reporter, Bronagh Munroe, to Bars Hill is to be believed about confronting Nicky about the lad that he saw him holding up against the wall on Bars Hill being Damien – whether or not the lad was Damien and whether or not the aggressor was Nicky – given Nicky’s long history with the police it would have given him good reason for wanting nothing to do with James, and for his daughter to ask Melissa what the police were saying about what they thought had happened to Damien – even several years after. Even if the witness didn’t confront Nicky but he really did see Nicky (or someone resembling Nicky) holding a lad up against a wall on the night that Damien vanished and people had suggested to him that the lad might have been Damien, word could easily have reached Nicky via the Island’s grapevine that he was being implicated in having something to do with Damien’s disappearance – again, giving him good reason to want James out of his house and for his daughter to question Melissa about what the police were saying. Added to this, on 16 June 1998 in an Isle of Wight County Press article to mark Damien’s 18th birthday, Valerie is quoted as saying: ‘Either he has met a sticky end, been the victim of foul play at someone’s hands, or someone has helped him to leave the Island.’ Did this create additional speculation among Damien’s friends and associates – who by the accounts of James, Chris Boon and their friend Vicky had continued to buy drugs from the dealers in the area – and kick the gears of the rumour mill up a notch? James’ and Melissa’s encounters, whilst maybe seeming odd to them at the time, do have alternative explanations to Nicky being involved in Damien’s disappearance.

Is the anonymous witness who took Bronagh to the wall on Bars Hill and Paul Foster the same person?

In 2005, a man who Valerie names as Paul Foster gave a statement to the police in which he claimed that on the night that Damien disappeared, he witnessed Nicky McNamara holding a youth up against a wall near the Harbour Lights pub and giving him a beating. The anonymous witness who Unsolved spoke to gave a similar account, and also claimed to have given a statement to the police in 2005. Importantly, Paul Foster’s statement was one of very few firsthand accounts that the police took seriously for many years. However, if the anonymous witness is Paul Foster, there is one detail of his account that stands out as requiring further clarification, and that’s what he ‘kept telling’ Bronagh – that Damien was taller than Nicky. As the photo of Nicky with his two sisters and two brothers in the 1990s shows, unless all of his siblings are unusually short, Nicky was a tall man and likely to have been at least as tall as Damien.

Based on Nicky being a tall man, on the photo to the right I have indicated the man in the Yorkies CCTV footage who the police could have thought was Nicky (if indeed Nicky was the ‘well-known drug dealer’ that DI Murphy was referring to when he told Valerie). I have called him ‘Tall guy’. The facial comparison top and bottom far left is between Nicky and Tall guy. Tall guy is definitely not Nicky because he has since been identified by the police as belonging to the army group (as were the other five men who were in Yorkies at the time) but I can see why the police may have thought that Tall guy might have been Nicky – they are about the same age, height and build, and although Tall guy’s hair is longer than Nicky’s buzz-cut, the blurry CCTV footage does suggest a general facial similarity. The comparison middle top and top right is between Tall guy and Damien as each enters the shop. The light reflection in the shop window opposite Yorkies that can be seen near the top left of the doorway is in the same place in each photo, and the height difference between 6’3” Damien and even taller Tall guy is clear. The comparison bottom middle/right is Tall guy and Damien standing next to one another at the counter – again, Tall guy looks to to be at least an inch or two taller than Damien. Of course it may have been one of the other men that the police thought was the ‘well-known drug dealer’, but ‘Tall guy’ is the only one that could have been mistaken for Nicky. If it was one of the other men that the police thought they had identified, the Isle of Wight County Press reporter was wrong about him being Nicky.

Could Nicky have lifted Damien, who was under the influence of alcohol and possibly drugs when he bought chips in Yorkies, far enough up as he held him against the wall ‘by the scruff of the neck’ for Damien to have appeared noticeably taller than Nicky? Being of similar height, Nicky is surely more likely to have pinned Damien against the wall and remained eye-to-eye with him, if not slightly bearing down on him, particularly if he was giving him a beating. This begs the question, if Paul Foster and the anonymous witness who spoke to Unsolved are the same person, was it actually Nicky that he saw? He also said that it was ‘well lit’, and that he thought Daniel Spencer was there too. There is also the issue of where the sighting took place. In all the accounts prior to Unsolved, the location is stated as being ‘a wall near the Harbour Lights pub’, yet in Unsolved, Bronagh was taken to a wall on Bars Hill. Is this close enough to the Harbour Lights to be coming from Paul Foster? The Harbour Lights was situated at the end of a slipway off the High Street just north of the Market Hill junction, whereas the wall on Bars Hill that was shown to Bronagh is around 150 metres away from the Harbour Lights and far around a corner, well out of the way and sight of the pub.

It may be that the police’s official line was ‘a wall near the Harbour Lights pub’ to keep the precise location of the altercation out of the public domain so that it remained testable against any other witness accounts that came in. The police say that they did something similar with the Yorkies CCTV footage – cutting out the part when the police car drew up outside so that witness accounts could be verified as true or false (there are also rumours of police corruption and police protection of the Islands’ drug dealers as being the reason for the police car being spliced from the footage). The anonymous witness is said to have told people about what he saw after he gave his statement in 2005, and it was only after this – in 2008 – that the information about ‘noise near Bars Hill sounding like a fight’ is mentioned.

On balance of probabilities, I think that the anonymous witness who spoke to Unsolved and Paul Foster are the same person. If his account is to be believed, he claims to have told his friends about what he saw at the time, and to have confronted Nicky sometime soon after this. However, given that he kept telling Bronagh that the youth was taller than Nicky and that Nicky appears to have been over 6’ tall himself, this places a question mark over whether it was Nicky that Paul Foster saw or somebody shorter – unless he also clarified at the time of making his statement that Nicky was a tall man, and so the ‘kid’ being taller than Nicky stood out as being unusual.

The flat above the butcher’s shop

One of the first rumours that began circulating during the six months following Damien’s disappearance was that he had been shouting up to the windows of the flat above the butcher’s shop. And maybe Damien had been shouting up at the windows – eyewitness accounts placed him in the vicinity of the flat at between 23:52 and 23:59, he would have likely passed the flat on his route with Chris before they parted ways, and perhaps the flat’s staircase was actually where Chris and Damien parted company. However, it wasn’t until after Nicky died that Nicky’s name became attached to this rumour. The first mention in Valerie’s book is in 2008 in relation to information given to Ivor Edwards in response to the £10,000 reward appeal – that Damien was shouting up for drugs, ended up inside the flat, and was beaten up by Nicky and others. The next mention comes after the £20,000 police reward was offered – that Damien was apparently heard shouting to someone to ‘throw something down’. Valerie also writes that over the years, rumour had indicated that two men with drug-related criminal histories were in the flat that night. They had both made police statements. A third man, Nicky McNamara, was allegedly there too. However, this suggests that the two man gave their statements sometime after Nicky died because there is no talk of a statement from Nicky, and no talk of the police ever speaking to Nicky about Damien.

In 2014, a man who Valerie calls Ed Weaver who claimed that he used to sell drugs for Nicky, said that he was at the flat above the butcher’s shop when Damien had shouted up asking for pills, on the night that he disappeared. Ed alleged that this had angered Nicky. In 2014/15, DI Liz Williams confirmed to Valerie that the police had spoken to Ed Weaver, but that it had been an informal chat. This suggests that Ed wasn’t actually in the flat and was simply repeating hearsay/rumours (he also said that he had been at another property later that evening when a lad came in saying that he’d just seen Nicky beating up a kid). The butcher’s shop flat is mentioned again in other information that was given to Unsolved – that Damien was taken there in the early hours of 3 November 1996 for the tenant to look after him, who later realised that Damien was in fact dead.

Did Damien shout up to the windows of the flat? I think that he probably did simply because it was one of the first rumours to emerge after his disappearance, and the times that it got repeated were when rewards for information had been offered. Did Damien shout up for drugs/pills/for someone to throw something down? The two men who gave statements confirming that they were in the flat at the time are said to have had drug-related histories, and the flat was identified in Unsolved as one of the places in Cowes to score drugs. Did this anger someone in the flat? If I was a drug dealer and a kid was down on the street, shouting up at my windows for pills, I’d be pretty angry. However, it’s a big jump between being angry about it and beating the kid to death for it. Was Damien beaten up somewhere else and taken to the flat either injured, dying or dead? People who beat people up don’t generally take them to someone else to be looked after, and if he was dying or dead, he wouldn’t have been moving under his own steam – he would have likely been left wherever the beating occurred. I think that if he did shout up at the windows of the flat asking for drugs, he was probably just told to ‘f**k off or you’ll get a beating.’

Did Damien fall foul of Nicky?

If Paul Foster’s account is to be believed, rumours about Damien falling foul of Nicky could have started circulating at any time during the six years to Nicky’s death in September 2002. However, following a television reconstruction in April 1999 of Damien’s last known movements, the police told Valerie that even their paid informants hadn’t turned up any information about Damien, which was by their account, a rarity. Between the time of Damien’s disappearance and Nicky’s death, Nicky racked up between 32 and 57 offences (it’s difficult to pin down a precise number from newspaper reports). He was constantly in the police’s hair, and they in his. Additionally, the police response to The Times article that was published on 6 November 2004 was that none of Damien’s known friends and associates had suggested anything about an argument with a drug dealer in their statements. Therefore, either all of Damien’s friends and associates lied to police and/or in the space of those eight years after Damien vanished didn’t come forward to make new statements, or the ‘common knowledge’ that ‘foul play was to blame for Damien’s sudden and unexpected disappearance’ was merely the result of rumours and hearsay. In relation to the language used, it’s interesting that in June 1998 Valerie was quoted in the Isle of Wight County Press as saying that Damien may have been ‘the victim of foul play at someone’s hands’. Perhaps foul play was the match that lit the fire that has been smoking ever since, and which eventually drew Nicky’s name into the flames.

Did Nicky’s name become attached to Damien’s death before or after Nicky died?

Although Nicky may have been mentioned early on in relation to the lad being beaten up against the wall, his name didn’t come to light until the Isle of Wight County Press reporter said that she thought it would be him in the Yorkies footage – at least 13 months after Nicky died and a whole seven years after Damien vanished, which is an awfully long time for it to have remained in the dark. It was only after this that Nicky’s name started to crop up in the drug dealer/drug debt rumours that had been circulating for years. The one question that needs to be answered in relation to this, is when did the ex-police informant tell the police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis – was it before the Isle of Wight County Press reporter said Nicky’s name, or after?

If the ex-police informant told the police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis before the Isle of Wight County Press reporter said Nicky’s name, this may have been what sparked the police into believing that one of the men in the Yorkies footage was a ‘well-known drug dealer from the area’. However, given that for seven years, four of the men in the video had remained unidentified, why hadn’t it occurred to the police before that one of the men might be Nicky? His face was well-known to them after all. If the ex-police informant told the police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis after the reporter said that she thought the drug dealer in the Yorkies footage would be Nicky, then the punch thrown in anger, Damien’s head going back against the wall, that it being an accident, a botched drug attack, that he owed money for a drug debt, could all be an amalgamation of ‘other things that Nicky did’ such as punching his girlfriend in 1989 (this would undoubtedly have stuck to him), his girlfriend having a swelling on the back of her head as a result of the punch (because presumably her head hit a wall), breaking the DSS screen in anger by accident four months prior to Damien going missing, being a heroin addict, owing money and having heavy people on his back before he died under what could be considered as suspicious circumstances… it’s easy to see how all of this information may have migrated across into the ‘Nicky killed Damien’ story.

And the rest – the locations that Damien is supposed to have been killed, the things that are supposed to have happened to his body, the places that he is supposed to have been buried – either speculation based on rumours, rumours that contain some elements of truth, or rumours spun to divert police and public attention away from what really did happen to Damien, who really was responsible for his death (if indeed someone was). It wouldn’t be the first time that police have pursued the wrong people because they have allowed their own, the public’s or the media’s biased view to push an investigation along the wrong path – Colin Stagg (29, single, who didn’t kill Rachael Nickell), Christopher Jeffries (65, single, who didn’t kill Joanna Yeates) and Barry George (40, single, who didn’t kill Jill Dando) are perhaps the three most well-known cases of wrongful murder convictions. All three men were considered pariahs in their respective communities and by the press – Colin Stagg was portrayed as ‘odd’ and a ‘loner’, Christopher Jeffries as ‘strange’ and ‘eccentric’, and Barry George as a ‘lonely obsessive’.

Additionally, public and media pressure on the police ‘to catch the killer’ can be immense (as it was in the three cases mentioned above), and the longer an investigation continues without delivering results, the more the police are criticised for not doing anything. One of the reasons that the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) was created was to put an end to police prosecutions, to ensure that the evidence that police had against suspects met certain thresholds, and to prevent police ‘fit ups’. The police can’t just pin serious crimes on the petty offenders who are constant thorns in their sides anymore.

Summary

Nicky McNamara’s name could have become associated with Damien’s soon after Damien disappeared if Paul Foster is to be believed, as late as the end of October 2003 when the Isle of Wight County Press reporter told Valerie that she thought the dead drug dealer would be Nicky, or at any time in-between. However, it wasn’t until 2003 that Nicky’s name became linked with Damien’s death. If this was after the end of October 2003, there is a very strong case for believing that Nicky didn’t kill Damien.

Questions that only the police can answer:

  • Was Nicky ever questioned about Damien’s disappearance?
  • When did the ex-police informant tell the police that Nicky killed Damien in an argument over cannabis – was it before or after the Isle of Wight County Press reporter told Valerie that she thought the dead drug dealer that the police might have been referring to in the Yorkies footage was Nicky?
  • When did the two men who were confirmed to have been in the butcher’s shop flat on the night that Damien disappeared make their statements?
  • Did these two men corroborate the claims that that Damien had been heard shouting up, asking for drugs/pills/something to be thrown down?
  • Have the police ever done a reconstruction of what Paul Foster witnessed at the wall using men of Nicky’s and Damien’s heights to see how plausible Nicky was as the shorter aggressor?
  • Did Paul Foster positively identify Nicky in his 2005 statement (as opposed to a man resembling Nicky)?
  • Did Paul Foster tell the police that Daniel Spencer was also present?

Concluding thoughts

At the time of Damien’s disappearance, Nicky was homeless. In September 1996 he was quoted in the Isle of Wight County Press as sleeping on a friend’s sofa in Ryde. Daniel Spencer lived on Westhill Road in Ryde at the time, and Daniel and Nicky were jointly charged with burgling the Originals men’s clothes shop in Newport during the first week of October 1996 (which they denied and were subsequently acquitted in April 1998 after the prosecution failed to offer evidence to the court). Nicky was still homeless on 28 November 1996 when he was stopped on Newport Road in Cowes for driving offences (no insurance, tax or MOT). By November 1996, 22-year-old Daniel already had a catalogue of driving and theft offences behind him, but unlike Nicky, these included dangerous driving, aggravated vehicle theft and aggravated burglary, and he also had assault, grievous bodily harm, possession of deadly weapon and criminal damage offences to his name.

Obviously being homeless, Nicky could have been staying anywhere on the night of 2-3 November 1996, but he had been associating with Daniel Spencer in the month prior to this. Maybe Nicky was in Cowes on the night that Damien disappeared. Maybe Daniel Spencer was with him. Although it took him until 2005 to give his statement, maybe Paul Foster really did witness both Nicky and Daniel at the wall with the youth, which places Daniel Spencer just as much in the picture as Nicky – or perhaps they were simply placed together because of the joint burglary charge that was reported in October. The one thing to keep bearing in mind though is that whatever may have happened to Damien, it wasn’t Nicky in the Yorkies CCTV footage. Had DI Murphy not told Valerie that they believed one of the men in Yorkies with Damien was a ‘well-known drug dealer from the area’ and had the Isle of Wight County Press reporter not said that she thought it would be Nicky McNamara, his name may never have become connected with Damien’s death.

I’m not sure what to look at in the next post in my Damien Nettles series. Perhaps Daniel Spencer as a suspect needs to be examined – he was arrested on suspicion of Damien’s murder and his file was passed to the CPS, therefore the police must have been hopeful that the evidence against him would meet the thresholds. There are also other theories that have been overshadowed by the prevailing drug dealer/drug debt rumour that may warrant investigation – that Damien was killed by paedophiles for example, which isn’t as farfetched as it might seem when the horrifying death of 16-year-old 6’1” rugby player George Mortimer at the hands of paedophile Darren Colling is considered.

Damien's disappearance remains an active missing person case. If you have any information that could help find Damien, please contact Hampshire Police on 101, quoting ‘Operation Ridgewood’, or if you would prefer to remain anonymous, Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111.

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Timeline 1:

Late October 2003: DI Murphy told Valerie that they thought they had identified one of the unknown men in the Yorkies CCTV footage – ‘a well-known drug dealer from the area’ who had died the previous year. He did not tell Valerie the drug dealer’s name, and the police did not tell the media or make it public. Having learned that journalists were sometimes more aware than the police of what was happening on the Island, she contacted the Isle of Wight County Press hoping to find out the dealer’s name. A reporter there told Valerie that she thought it would be Nicky McNamara.

Soon after this the police reported back to Valerie – it wasn’t who they had thought it was in the Yorkies footage.

Valerie shared Nicky McNamara’s name with her family and friends.

Damien’s younger brother, James, spoke of going to Nicky’s house once with a friend from school who knew Nicky’s sons and that ‘it was after Damien disappeared’. James said that when Nicky was told who he was, the friends were told to get him out of the house. James also said that Nicky’s sons used to taunt him about Damien being fish bait. Damien’s younger sister, Melissa, spoke of remembering Nicky’s daughter who was a year above her at school, suddenly asking her ‘lots of questions about what the police were saying about Damien’.

6 November 2004: An article appeared in The Times entitled ISLAND BOY ANNOYED DRUG SELLER ON THE DAY HE VANISHED. In it, three friends of Damien spoke about it being ‘common knowledge’ among young people on the Island that foul play was to blame for Damien’s sudden and unexpected disappearance, and that he had been the victim of a botched drug attack. Damien’s friend, Alex Roberts, claimed that many people involved in the Cowes’ drug scene in the late 1990s were very aware of Damien’s fate and urged them to speak out. Another man, also in his 20s, claimed that Damien had angered a local drug dealer shortly after leaving Yorkies, with fatal consequences – an account that the paper said was ‘backed up’ by a former drug addict’s testimony to the police that Damien’s body had been moved in the back of a car, which police had dismissed as unreliable. The article also claimed that Valerie and Damien’s close friends had said that they believed certain members of the community had deliberately held something back from the police.

On the same day that this article was published, Valerie received an email from the DCI in charge of Damien’s case explaining that none of the statements given by sixty or so of Damien’s friends and acquaintances had suggested anything about an argument with a drug dealer.

March 2005: Valerie received a confidential email informing her that the police would be conducting a 6-8-week investigation around Nicky McNamara’s associates. However, it’s unclear whether the police mentioned Nicky by name in the email or whether this was Valerie’s assumption. Valerie was updated on the investigation four months later in an email that ‘contained nothing of real note’.

July 2007: DCI Kilbride visited Valerie in Texas to go over Damien’s case review. There were no names in Kilbride’s report, however, Valerie writes that it talked about Nicky McNamara and his ‘cronies’ and their potential connection to Damien’s disappearance: ‘The extensive investigation DCI Williams had been managing back in 2005 had seemingly drawn no conclusions. Kilbride didn’t seem to think much more could be done with regards to that line of enquiry barring the discovery of new evidence’. The report also recommended a number of rumours surrounding Damien’s disappearance be reinvestigated including one that ‘a male resembling Nicky McNamara had held a youth up against a wall near The Harbour Lights pub and had given him a beating.’ Again, the report contained no names, only codes, and so this is Valerie’s naming of Nicky, not Kilbride’s.

February 2008: Ivor Edwards, a self-styled private investigator who began investigating Damien’s case in November 2007, put an appeal in the Isle of Wight County Press to raise a reward fund. A few weeks later, the paper received an anonymous letter. The author asked that it be passed to Ivor. The letter’s author said that he/she had been told by many people that Damien was in Cowes, drunk, shouting up to the flat above the butcher’s shop on the corner of Terminus Road for drugs, that he ended up inside, was either punched or hit over head with something and rendered unconscious, that Nicky McNamara did part of the hitting, and that Damien’s body was wrapped in chicken wire somewhere, put in boot of a car and dropped off the back of the Island over a cliff. The letter’s author also said that he/she had been told that the police had investigated this. Ivor is said to have pressed to discover more about Nicky’s connection to Damien and found out about the circumstances of Nicky’s death and link to Shirley Barrett/Thomas. Other information that the reward appeal generated included noise heard near Bars Hill that sounded like a fight, and a vague account of a youth being held up against a wall in that area at a similar time.

October 2010: James received a text message from someone claiming to be one of Nicky’s associates, saying that Damien was buried on ‘a cycle track’. The information was passed to DI O’Callaghan and DI Heelan. O’Callaghan made it clear that the source couldn’t be trusted, and that they had spoken to him before.

November 2010: Ivor Edwards heard about an alleged associate of Nicky who couldn’t help talking about Damien when he was drunk, repeating ‘no body, no crime’ over and over again.

January 2011: A source came forward to a friend of Valerie’s, believed to be the same source that had texted James in October 2010. The source alleged that eight years previously he had told the police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis – that he had thrown a punch at Damien in anger but hadn’t intended to kill him. The source explained that Damien’s body had been hidden ‘in a renowned drug den’ on Fellows Road and kept there for up to two weeks before being buried near a cycle path in a sail bag. Valerie passed the information to Damien’s case officer, DCI Powell, reminding him of the information she had passed to O’Callaghan and Heelan in October. Powell informed her that based on new and existing intelligence, a search would take place looking at the places the informant had mentioned and the people named. The plan was to arrest those who either claimed knowledge or who were named as being involved in Damien’s alleged killing to see if they would crack or grass on one another.

January 2011: A young man came forward to Damien’s older sister, Sarah. Valerie met with him and his mother. The mother told Valerie about how two of her sons had got into drugs and on the wrong side of the Island’s dealers. They had heard that Damien had upset a well-known crooked businessman by standing up to some of his dealings and that Nicky was sent to sort Damien out. They named Parkhurst Forest as a burial site. DCI Powell believed that the family had an agenda and were using Damien as a means to an end for their own benefit.

10 May 2011: In a dawn raid police arrested and questioned five people in connection with Damien’s disappearance. The marsh adjacent to the Cowes to Newport cycle track near Stag Lane was searched. While the search was underway, an anonymous tip-off came in about a man matching Nicky’s description burning clothes in an oil drum outside a chalet on Marsh Road whilst shouting ‘I’m a damned man’. The search of the Stag Lane marsh area turned up no evidence or remains.

May 2011: The informant who had first spoke about the cycle track and Damien’s alleged altercation with Nicky contacted a friend of Valerie’s to say that the police had searched the wrong spot, that Damien was buried in a wooded copse (Winding Way) on Gurnard cycle path.

01 November 2011: The police conducted a two-day fingertip search of the chalet on Marsh Road implicated in the May search tip-off. The chalet was owned by an acquaintance of Nicky, and he and his wife were arrested on suspicion of conspiracy to murder. Residents of Marsh Road told the Isle of Wight County Press that the chalet had been unoccupied for years.

Between November 2011 and April 2012: Mr X/The Weatherman claimed that he saw Nicky and some others outside Moira House on Sun Hill the day after Damien vanished. He said that Nicky was putting what appeared to be a bloodied carpet into a red car. He claims to have said, jokingly, ‘What have you got there, a body?’ and they apparently all looked at him in horror. He continued to speak to Ivor Edwards, making various claims about witnessing Nicky – that he had been in Cowes the night Damien disappeared, the oil drum fire at the Marsh Road chalet, etc.

28 February 2012: BBC News publish an article entitled MOTHER OF DAMIEN NETTLES TALKS OF DRUGS DEBT MURDER THEORY. In it, Valerie spoke of believing that Damien had been beaten to death by a drugs gang and that ‘there has been more information that he fell foul of some people. […] A couple of these people have since passed away from overdoses so it's difficult to prove now, but there are still people around who have information about what happened. […] We understand that someone involved with these particular people told them what they did to Damien.’

Late 2012/early 2013: Shirley Barrett made a claim to Ivor Edwards that Nicky had picked up Damien with another man who she refused to name on Baring Road near to Bars Hill on the night that Damien disappeared.

2014: Information about a lad who claimed to have seen Nicky beating up another lad on the night that Damien disappeared found its way to Valerie via her friend, Kaley. Kaley was told about the altercation by a lad who Valerie names Ed Weaver. Ed claimed that he used to sell drugs for Nicky and was at the flat above the butcher’s shop on the corner of Terminus Road when Damien had shouted up, asking for pills, on the night that he disappeared. Ed alleged that this had angered Nicky. Ed claimed was at another property later on when a lad came in saying that he’d just seen Nicky beating the crap out of another lad. Ed said that it was only over the next few days when it came out that Damien was missing, that he and others thought that the lad being beaten might have been Damien. They told the lad who claimed to have witnessed the altercation and urged him to go to the police, but as far as Ed knew, he never did.

October 2015: The filming for Unsolved: The Boy Who Disappeared began.

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The following revised timeline is based on the first timeline but begins with the night of Damien’s disappearance, plus some additional details:

Timeline 2:

Evening of 2 November 1996: Ed Weaver claims that he was at the flat above the butcher’s shop in Cowes, that Nicky and at least one other person were there also and that Damien had shouted up at the windows, asking for pills, which angered Nicky. Ed Weaver told this to a friend of Valerie’s in 2014.

  • Two men with drug-related histories were confirmed as living at the flat at the time. Both made statements saying that they were in the flat on the night of 2-3 November 1996. They alleged that Nicky was in the flat also. This suggests that the two men’s statements were taken after Nicky died (post 21/09/2002). It is unknown whether the men corroborated Ed’s claim that Damien shouted up for pills and this angered Nicky, or indeed if Ed was actually there in the flat with them.
  • In 2014/15 DI Liz Williams confirmed to Valerie that police had spoken to Ed Weaver but that it had been an informal chat. Because the butcher’s shop flat residents were spoken to after Nicky died, it is reasonable to assume that Ed was spoken to after Nicky died also. Was Ed actually in the flat, or did he just hear that Damien had been shouting up at the windows, asking for pills? If he was in the flat, he is an eyewitness and would have been urged to make a statement. If he wasn’t, his account is second-hand hearsay (which may explain why the police only had an informal chat with him).

After midnight on 3 November 1996: Ed Weaver claims that he had left the butcher’s shop flat and was at another property in Cowes when Paul Foster came in saying that he’d just seen Nicky beating up a lad. Ed Weaver told a friend of Valerie about this in 2014.

After midnight on 3 November 1996: A young man who Valerie calls Simon W in her book saw a youth in the small hours when he’d been making his way home from his parents’ house. He’d been walking along Baring Road and had seen the youth between Egypt Hill and the top of Woodvale Road directly level with Solent Middle School. He said that the youth resembled Damien’s disappearance. This information had been given to the police in the first couple of weeks after Damien vanished, but was dismissed by DC Clarke due to the witness being unreliable.

00:30 on 3 November 1996: A motorist and his wife saw a youth resembling Damien’s appearance in the middle of Baring Road near to the Solent Middle School towards the top of Woodvale Road. The youth was carrying a blue and white striped plastic bag. This was presented to Valerie as new evidence in January 1998 in relation to the police searches in Gurnard on 15-16 January. Valerie writes that it was the same account that had been given by Simon W in the couple of weeks after Damien vanished that DC Clarke had dismissed as unreliable. However, they are clearly different accounts – the first witness was a single young man walking home from his parents’ house, the second witnesses were a motorist and his wife in a car. The time of the sighting at 00:30 was confirmed according to the car’s clock, which was 01:30 minus one hour because it hadn’t been set back at the end of British Summer Time.  

After midnight on 3 November 1996: A lad said that he saw some men in a red van abduct and murder Damien. The lad gave this information to Ivor Edwards sometime between late 2007/early 2013.

After midnight on 3 November 1996: Nicky allegedly picked up Damien with another man on Baring Road near to Bars Hill. This information was given to Ivor Edwards by Shirley Barrett in late 2012/early 2013.

In the days after Damien went missing: Ed Weaver and others wondered if the lad that Paul Foster saw Nicky beating up might have been Damien. They told Paul Foster and urged him to go to the police. At the time, Paul Foster didn’t think that the lad had been Damien. Ed Weaver told a friend of Valerie about this in 2014.

Between January and May 1997: Rumours that emerged about what happened to Damien included:

  • He had been shouting up at the windows of a flat above the butcher’s shop in Cowes.
  • Some shady characters had beaten him up after he tried to defend a friend.
  • A young drug addict, Harry Corbett (not his real name), told a nurse at the hospital that he’d helped to bury Damien and that his body had been wrapped in a carpet (this was later connected to a story that was passed to Valerie in February 2004 via councillor Lynn Hammond about two paedophiles who had taken Harry and Damien to a chalet they owned on Gurnard Marsh, killed Damien, then wrapped him in a carpet and burned his body in a blue car).
  • He had come to harm at the hands of known paedophiles who groomed boys by supplying them with drugs and booze.

Between May 1997 and January 1998: The rumours that circulated about what had happened to Damien included multiple claims that Damien had been killed and his body disposed of including:

16 June 1998: In an Isle of Wight County Press article to mark Damien’s 18th birthday, Valerie is quoted as saying: ‘Either he has met a sticky end, been the victim of foul play at someone’s hands, or someone has helped him to leave the Island.’

Sometime between mid-November 1996 and summer 2000 when James was still at school: Nicky’s sons taunted James about Damien being fish bait. James went to Nicky’s house with a friend from school who knew Nicky’s sons and when Nicky was told who James was, the friends were told to get him out of the house. James told Valerie this information in October 2003 after Valerie had shared Nicky’s name with her family and friends.

Sometime between mid-November and summer 2002 when Nicky McNamara’s daughter was still at school: Nicky’s daughter suddenly started questioning Melissa about what the police were saying about Damien. Melissa told Valerie this information in October 2003 after Valerie had shared Nicky’s name with her family and friends.

21 September 2002: Nicky McNamara died of a heroin overdose in Shirley Barrett’s bath at Prospect Road in Newport, Isle of Wight. The mother of his children saw and spoke to him the day before he died and writes that he had been clean for a while and looked well, but that he had said that he was worried about money he owed and that it was a serious situation – that he had heavy people on his back.

6 March 2003: A coroner recorded a verdict of self-induced heroin overdose following the death of heroin addict Nicky McNamara. Shirley Barrett claimed that she, Nicky, and another man, Sean Michael Thompson, injected heroin on the night of 20 September 2002. She also claimed that Nicky injected again on the morning of 21 September 2002 in her bath. At 5pm on 23 September 2002 Thompson discovered Nicky in the empty bath, naked and dead. There were two empty syringes on the floor (not sticking out of his back as Unsolved claimed) beside some clothes and a towel. Thompson was found hanged near the property three months later.

Late October 2003: DI Murphy told Valerie that they thought they had identified one of the unknown men in the Yorkies CCTV footage – ‘a well-known drug dealer from the area’ who had died the previous year.

  • The police did not tell Valerie the drug dealer’s name or publish it anywhere.
  • A reporter from the Isle of Wight County Press told Valerie that she thought the drug dealer would be Nicky McNamara.
  • The police reported back to Valerie that it wasn’t who they thought it was in the Yorkies footage.
  • Valerie shared Nicky McNamara’s name with her family and friends.

Claimed 2003: An anonymous source told police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis – that he had thrown a punch at Damien in anger but hadn’t intended to kill him. Damien’s body had been hidden at a house on Fellows Road and kept there for up to two weeks before being buried near a cycle path in a sail bag. The anonymous source, who was later identified as an ex-police informant, told this information to James in a text message in 2011.

3 November 2004: In an article for The Times, Valerie is quoted to have said: ‘we must face the awful possibility that something happened to our son which has prevented him ever making contact with us, and the possibility that he suffered at the hands of unscrupulous individuals.’ The article also said that the police had interviewed all of Damien’s known friends and associates.

6 November 2004: Article entitled ISLAND BOY ANNOYED DRUG SELLER ON THE DAY HE VANISHED appeared in The Times. Several of Damien’s friends were interviewed and the following information was printed:

6 November 2004: Valerie received an email from the DCI in charge of Damien’s case explaining that none of the statements given by sixty or so of Damien’s friends and acquaintances had suggested anything about an argument with a drug dealer. The email also referenced ‘the line of enquiry regarding McNamara, and how Murphy had personally interviewed anyone connected to that rumour, with no evidence to support it having yet been found.’

November 2004: Meeting with DCI Williams and DI Murphy at Cowes Police Station to go over Damien’s case. Valerie writes about DI Murphy being the man who’d first brought Nicky to her attention ‘even if not by name’, and that The Times article didn’t get much of a mention. She writes that the meeting was ‘the same old, same old’ until she asked: ‘What about Nicky McNamara?’ and the meeting subsequently took ‘an odd turn’. She clarified to the officers what she meant by saying the drug dealer who recently died of a drug overdose that she was informed may have been connected to the case. She writes that Williams appeared startled, Murphy averted his eyes, and that she said to Murphy: ‘I was told by an officer in 2003 that a local drug dealer was believed to be in the CCTV footage in Yorkies. That it was being investigated.’ Williams told her that she must be mistaken and he didn’t know where this was coming from or why she had made that connection. Valerie writes that after the meeting she was disappointed and embarrassed ‘that both officers had acted like they’d never heard of Nicky McNamara’ and that she went through her emails and found the one from Williams from 6 November 2004 that had mentioned the investigation into rumours relating to Nicky McNamara and some of his associates. 

Sometime in early 2005: Paul Foster made a statement to the police that on the night that Damien disappeared, he saw a male resembling Nicky McNamara holding a youth up against a wall near The Harbour Lights pub and giving the lad a beating. At the time he didn’t think that the lad was Damien. The friend who suggested to him that the lad could have been Damien also made a statement (this friend must have been someone other than Ed Weaver who didn’t give a statement). It’s not clear whether ‘a male resembling Nicky McNamara’ is police speak, or because Paul was unable to say with certainty that it was Nicky who he witnessed.

Paul Foster may be the anonymous witness who took Unsolved reporter, Bronagh Munroe, to the wall on Bars Hill where he claimed to have seen Nicky holding up a ‘young, thin, skinny nipper’. According to Bronagh, he made a statement in 2005, ‘but he did tell people afterwards.’

March 2005: Valerie received a confidential email informing her that the police would be conducting a 6-8-week investigation around Nicky’s associates.

7 September 2005: Valerie was updated on the investigation in an email that ‘contained nothing of real note’.

July 2007: The Kilbride report, which contained no names, recommended that the rumour that a male resembling Nicky had held a youth up against a wall near the Harbour Lights pub and had given him a beating, be reinvestigated.

November 2007: Self-styled private investigator, Ivor Edwards, began investigating Damien’s case.

February 2008 post reward appeal: Information received after Ivor Edwards’ reward appeal was published included:

  • Author of anonymous letter passed to Ivor Edwards from the Isle of Wight County Press stated that he had been told by many people that Damien was in Cowes, drunk, shouting up to the flat above the butchers shop on the corner of Terminus Road for drugs, that he ended up inside, was either punched or hit over head with something and rendered unconscious, that Nicky McNamara did part of the hitting, and that his body was wrapped in chicken wire somewhere, put in boot of a car and dropped off the back of the Island somewhere over a cliff.
  • Noise heard near Bars Hill that sounded like a fight.
  • A vague account of a youth being held up against a wall in that area at a similar time.

October 2010: Text message to James from someone claiming to be one of Nicky’s associates saying that Damien was buried on ‘a cycle track’.

November 2010: Ivor Edwards heard about an alleged associate of Nicky who couldn’t stop talking about Damien when he was drunk, repeating ‘no body, no crime’ over and over again.

January 2011: A young man said that he had heard Damien had upset a well-known crooked businessman by standing up to some of his dealings and that Nicky was sent to sort Damien out. DCI Powell believed that the family had an agenda and were using Damien as a means to an end for their own benefit.

January 2011: The same source who had texted James in October 2010 texted him again to say that eight years previously he had told police that Nicky had killed Damien in an argument over cannabis – that he had thrown a punch at Damien in anger but hadn’t intended to kill him. Damien’s body had been hidden at a house on Fellows Road and kept there for up to two weeks before being buried near a cycle path in a sail bag. Valerie writes that the source was an ex-police informant who was now married into the ‘drugs world’ and who police used to pay for information. The information was passed to the police.

10 May 2011: Police arrested five men ‘based on new and existing information’ and searched the marsh adjacent to the Cowes to Newport cycle track near Stag Lane. Although no names have ever been released, two of those arrested were Daniel Spencer and Jonathan ‘Bunny’ Iles. The search of the marsh turned up no evidence or remains. During the search, the police receive an anonymous tip-off about a man matching Nicky’s description burning clothes in an oil drum outside a chalet of an acquaintance of Nicky in the days after Damien disappeared whilst shouting ‘I’m a damned man’.

May 2011: The ex-police informant said that the police had searched the wrong spot, that Damien was buried in a wooded copse known as Winding Way on Gurnard cycle path.

01 November 2011: The police conducted a two-day fingertip search of the chalet on Marsh Road and arrested the two owners on suspicion of conspiracy to murder. Residents of Marsh Road told the Isle of Wight County Press that the chalet had been unoccupied for years.

Between November 2011 and April 2012: Mr X/The Weatherman claimed that he saw Nicky and some others outside Moira House on Sun Hill the day after Damien vanished. He said that Nicky was putting what appeared to be a bloodied carpet into a red car. He claims to have said, jokingly, ‘What have you got there, a body?’ and they apparently all looked at him in horror. He continued to speak to Ivor Edwards, making various claims about witnessing Nicky  – that he had been in Cowes the night Damien disappeared, the oil drum fire at the chalet the following afternoon, etc.

28 February 2012: BBC News published an article entitled MOTHER OF DAMIEN NETTLES TALKS OF DRUGS DEBT MURDER THEORY. In it, Valerie spoke of believing that Damien had been beaten to death by a drugs gang and that ‘there has been more information that he fell foul of some people. […] A couple of these people have since passed away from overdoses so it's difficult to prove now, but there are still people around who have information about what happened. […] We understand that someone involved with these particular people told them what they did to Damien.’ At the time, three people who could be linked to Nicky were still on bail following the May and November searches – Daniel Spencer, and the owners of the Marsh Road chalet.

7 June 2012: The three remaining suspects were released from bail without charge.

Between June and October 2012: The ex-police informant remained adamant that Damien would be found on the cycle path in Gurnard and said that he had seen the sail bag that Damien was moved in at Fellows Road where a dealer called Bunny Iles rented a room – that men there had been showing him stolen goods they had in bags and when he went to look in the sail bag one of the men stopped him and said with a smirk ‘you don’t want to look in there’. The informant also told of young boys who had drug debts who had been roped in to dispose of Damien’s body. One of them had been sobbing because he had seen Damien’s murder. Valerie writes that she remembered an anonymous message received through the Damien Nettles website ‘from years back’ that described something very similar (according to the chronology in Valerie’s book, the Damien Nettles website was created sometime between April and November 2004. There is also a blog that may have been created prior to this.)

October 2012: Information received after a £20,000 reward is offered by the police to track down Damien:

  • Damien was heard shouting to someone in the flat above the butcher’s shop to ‘throw something down’.
  • People living in homes off The Parade had reported shouting, almost like a fight taking place, sometime after midnight.

October 2015: The investigation and filming for Unsolved: The Boy Who Disappeared began. Additional information that Unsolved gathered included:

  • 18 Shore Road was identified as a place that Damien had allegedly been killed. The source of the information, the ex-police informant, had spoken to councillor Lynn Hammond who recalled what she had been told in episode 2: that ‘this boy’ started sobbing and when he was asked what was the matter, he said that he'd been involved in helping to bury Damien, that he was never meant to be killed, only taught a lesson, and it went wrong. Damien was brought to 18 Shore Road alive and died there – his head went back against the wall and he slumped to the floor and choked on his own vomit. He was wrapped in a rug and black plastic bags.  
  • An anonymous witness who wouldn’t show his face on camera took Unsolved reporter, Bronagh Munroe, to a wall on Bars Hill where he claimed that he saw ‘Nicky Mac. Nick had a young, thin, skinny nipper up against a wall on the bend of Bars Hill. It was well lit, about midnight-ish. It wasn't friendly. No, I knew that straight away. It wasn't friendly. He had him by the scruff of the neck and was holding him up against the wall. Er… Danny Spencer was stood well back.’ Bronagh said that ‘the one thing that he kept telling me about the kid was that he was really tall, taller than Nicky Mac […] He makes a statement in 2005, but he did tell people afterwards.’ The witness went on to say that a few months after Damien disappeared, after people had suggested to him that the kid he saw could have been Damien, he confronted Nicky: ‘It was all in the news, and it's just sort of you know come up to my mind, like, "Oh, that were that young nipper, that Damien Nettles that night, was it, that I saw you with?” and he got really paranoid. He couldn't look me in the eyes. He's going, "No, no, no. What are you on about?" Like, you know, he was from one second being relaxed and talking or whatever to his whole demeanour had changed. To being paranoid and couldn't look me in the eyes.’ Bronagh also said that the witness claimed that he told the police that he couldn't be sure that it had been Daniel Spencer who was with Nicky.
  • A claim that Damien was taken to the flat above the butcher’s shop in the early hours of 3 November 1996 for the tenant to look after him. This person later realised that Damien was in fact dead (information re: Unsolved via www.damienettles.uk).
  • The ex-police informant is stated to have said that Damien’s body was moved from Fellows Road to Shore Road in a sail bag (information re: Unsolved via www.damiennettles.uk).

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BBC News (25 July 2016) Damien Nettles: The Boy Who Disappeared.

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Isle of Wight County Press archives (5 May 1995  to 23 December 2005) Results for “Daniel Alan Spencer”, “Daniel Spencer”, “Danny Spencer” and “Dan Spencer”. Search conducted 23 May 2024.

Isle of Wight County Press archives (16 September 1983 to 20 June 2003) Results for “Nicholas John McNamara”, “Nicholas McNamara”, “Nicky McNamara” and “Nick McNamara”. Search conducted 23 May 2024.

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